Check this out: when people don’t like you, nothing actually happens. The world does not end. You don’t feel them breathing down your neck. In fact, the more you ignore them and just go about your business, the better off you are. Via The Complete Guide to Not Giving a Fuck
I have a friend who is always concern how she is being judge. She often tries to live a life that what others want to see in her because she is worry that her friends would not like her.
Sometimes I do this myself, changing certain behaviors or doing a different kind of thing that I think would please people for it.
When we try to conform to other, we are often not happy and that is wrong. Plus Haters gonna hate , you cannot please everyone.
This year, my friends and a gentle reminder to myself. Start doing what’s happy and the things you like.